Don’t Miss Life Because of Your Fears!
If you don’t appreciate it, if you keep missing out on the things you want most, life becomes mundane…” Yes, songs and quotes speak of important truths, one of which is the fact that your fears are one of your biggest obstacles.
Getting out of our comfort zone is hard work and it scares us. We are afraid to take risks. Still, if we don’t take risks, we’ll never know if a brighter and more colorful landscape awaits us on the other side of the mountains of fear.
It could be a new job, it could be someone who loves us the way we deserve, it could be someone wanting to come into our lives, it could be one of the opportunities we’ve been waiting for all our lives…
If you believe it will be worth the effort, don’t miss it! Life is like Russian Roulette, your luck can change at any moment. But not what you do; regret what you didn’t do.
When you make important decisions that will change your life, the joy you get from overcoming your fear will allow you to grow. You will feel much better, your self-esteem will increase like a balloon inflating with happiness.
Remember when you were a kid, swimming, biking, how scary the first day of school was… Or go back to the days when you were excited about what your first kiss would be like, worried about whether you were good enough to make the football team. Every time you took a risk and achieved something, you used to feel so much better, didn’t you?
Same goes for adults. Fear is often only in your head and is your worst enemy. The obstacles you put in front of you often seem bigger than they are. We love to tell ourselves stories of fear, horror, shame, and pride…but don’t get carried away!
If love comes your way, don’t let it slip away. Don’t give up on the job you want so much because of the fear that you are not good enough… Take a deep breath, smile at yourself in the mirror and continue. Don’t miss the opportunities!
Because if you think about it, you can see that there are not many secrets in life. All you have to do is be willing to learn them…
If life has meaning, it’s because of opportunities that come our way when we least expect it. These opportunities make our soul, the effect of the rejuvenating cream on the face, add youth, so never give up!
“Love drives away fear; on the contrary, fear and love. Not just love. Fear also drives away intelligence, goodness, good thoughts, and truth. It leaves desperation behind, and in the end, fear takes away even a person’s humanity.” (Aldous Huxley)
How to overcome your fears
It is natural for people to be afraid, fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of change… But too much fear hinders us, we have to face it. So how can we do this?
- Admit that you are afraid, this is normal. The first step is to recognize it and oppose it.
- Really recognize your fear. What exactly is it that scares you?
- Think about the worst thing that could happen to you, imagine how you would fix it if things didn’t go as you hoped. This will make you feel confident. For example: “If I change my job and it doesn’t work for me, how long can I be unemployed? What temporary jobs can I do until I find a fixed job?
